Art of Making Love

A course based on Nonviolent Communication (NVC)

Art of Making Love

Bringing NVC to your bedroom !

Online in ENGLISH

With Marije Roos & Bonno Lange

Do you have a sense that there is more to Lovemaking? Are you ready to explore?

Do you struggle having sex that brings fulfillment, joy and bliss, especially after the honeymoon phase?
Do you want to enter new areas of pleasure, honesty and love together?
Do you long for your relationship to be a place where sexuality contributes to growth and sustainability?
Do you long to meet yourself and each other on deeper levels?
In this course we will explore how to manifest the potential of the couple. For your love relationship to be a place where sex can be experienced as the most vibrant energy on the planet.
We will explore how Making Love can function as the base of a nourishing relationship. How to use sexual energy as a force that can contribute to love, healing and growth, in your relationship as well as in other areas of life.
In this six full Sundays online course for couples, Making Love will be specifically part of the curriculum.

About the trainers: Marije & Bonno

Why is it so difficult to keep the spark, flow, and ease that is often there at the beginning of a love relationship?

GIf you chose to be in a couple, why not invest in making it a place where two people get nourished and love can grow and deepen over time?

This course focuses on exactly that.

We will explore:

❀  Our ‘shoulds’ and ‘have to’s’ in sex and how to move into a direction of Making Love that is welcoming whatever is there.

❀  Self-connection in movement, stillness, alone, together, in dialogue and in Lovemaking.

❀  Masculine and Feminine – from differences to complementary.

❀  The art of making love: how we can cultivate love through sex.

❀  How sex can be a healing experience.

❀  Savoring our pleasurable experiences

❀  How to support your love relationship by yourself and in connection with your partner through: Dialogue, Self-connection and Making love

❀  Sensing/sensitivity/sensuality – pleasure and pain as a source for creation.

❀  Celebration and Appreciation – The fuel for LOVE & LIFE

❀  Moving from focussing on ‘doing’ in sex to focussing on ‘being’, in sex

❀  and more

What to expect

Choice! Nothing in this course is obligatory. The focus is on self-connection, getting to know your longings, your YES and your NO.

A safe space to share and be held in all that arises.

Guided, silent and active body and mind practices, to grow self-connection and sensuality/sensitivity.

Group time where we can share our mournings and celebrations to learn from each other and create community connection to support the couple.

Extra support

Assistants: We will have assistants accompanying us during this course. They’ve already completed the Basic, Intermediate, Advanced and Year Courses with us and some are engaged in their steps toward teaching/sharing NVC.


This course is designed for heterosexual couples as Bonno and Marije teach from personal experience.
Since NVC is very much the base of this course and we won’t focus on the basics of NVC, we recommend for both people a minimum of 60 hours NVC learning experience (preferably with Connecting2life). If you have less experience, questions or doubts, you’re welcome to share this with us and we can figure it out together.


All time are written in Amsterdam time zone (During summer time it is called: CEST).
Each day (except the Friday evening) will have the following structure:

09:30-12:30 bodywork & Teaching / learning / practicing
12:30-13:30 Lunch (offline)
13:30-15:00 Teaching / learning / practicing
15:30-18:00 Lovemaking in the privacy of your own bedroom (offline)
18:00-19:30 Dinner (offline)
19:30-20:15 Rounding up of the day: Harvesting and sharing circle
20:30-21:15 Deepening skills and body work


This course runs between 16 February – 24 March 2024


Friday 16 February: 19:30-21:30

Sunday 18 February: 09:30 -21:15

Sunday 25 February: 09:30 -21:15

Sunday 3 March: 09:30 -21:15

Sunday 10 March: 09:30 -21:15

Sunday 17 March: 09:30 -21:15

Sunday 24 March: 09:30 -21:15


Only the teachings will be recorded and available till 3 weeks after the course ended. As the sharing might be very vulnerable, we prefer not to record any sharing.


The fee is per person (not per couple):
A choice between € 575 – € 1150 per person (choice is based on your income and free will)

To book your place:

To book your place, follow the 3 steps below.
If you have any questions please contact us at:

1. Read the Terms & Conditions (Many of us never read ‘Terms & Conditions’… and, we would recommend you to read this one to be sure we’re together and on the same page).
2. Fill in the form below.
3. Complete the €100 non-refundable prepayment.

Regarding the remainder of the payment:
  We ask that you pay the remainder of the course fees within a week of finishing the course. We suggest you pay at the end because we like people to know what they’re paying for. We do this because we wish for your payment to be more connected to gratitude rather than to a sense of duty. If you prefer to pay earlier this is also welcome.

‘The regret period’:  If you change your mind within 14 days after sending the prepayment (and 3 days before the course has actually begun), we will fully refund your prepayment.

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